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some people. Life corners them, not because God punishes them, but because they have set certain forms 47 THE WALL WITHIN
monstrous god-of-your-image who arbitrarily favors a few and punishes some less fortunate creatures. The other imagined god 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
he lets go of this imaginary God who punishes, rewards, and leads life for him, when he 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT
He hates his parents so much that he punishes them by destroying himself. However, he does not 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE
he transfers onto his helper, whom he also punishes by his miserable state and from whom he 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE
 
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toward God. God is then believed to be punishing and severe, often even an unfair and unjust 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
self-punishment or a form of aggressiveness toward others, punishing them by one's own unhappiness -- and many 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
see it objectively. There are many ways of punishing those you love, for instance, sickness. How many 53 SELF-LOVE
been interpreted to mean that God is a punishing, cruel God of retribution. Of course, it is 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
as a vague authority or an imaginary, severe, punishing God. The decrees of this powerful authority make 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
fear his imperfection and does not fear God's punishing him for it. He can see it without 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT
this in the sense of a rewarding or punishing God. The cosmic forces with which you come 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
lead away from the false concept of a punishing or rewarding deity up in the sky, and 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
yourself of the guilt. Therefore you go on punishing yourself, believing that this makes up for the 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF
way of embracing pain, or a masochistic, self- punishing element that in itself harbors and perpetuates a 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN
form of deliberate self-destruction as a way of punishing them. This is a prevalent pattern that, to 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
others, or perhaps wanting to be vindictive, and punishing others with one's own suffering. These are subtle 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
and again your will to be hating, unforgiving, punishing, resentful, and hurt. You will become aware of 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY
price he pays for the doubtful satisfaction of punishing his parents is so horrendous that it cannot 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE
as the strange, removed authority figure of a punishing god. Your path from that stage on must 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE
heart of hearts you are really angry, blaming, punishing, and self-victimizing because your imagined real need for 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS
from doing this with ease. The destructive, demanding, punishing, and spiteful child usually manifests in a very 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS
The suffering itself is a frequent weapon for punishing parents, projected parents, and life. It says, in 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS
pain, because you are unwittingly and quite unconsciously punishing others with this pain. The work should rather 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS
debilitating guilt feeling: false guilts, fear of a punishing God, a guilt that did not make it 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT
field that perpetuates itself in the following way: punishing yourself for your unfaced guilt, you must stay 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT
you feel undeserving and unfulfilled you go on punishing the world for this painful frustration. You dare 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT
well. One of the most popular ways for punishing others for not responding with love to your 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY
your love, and the compounded guilt caused by punishing others for your misery, must erode your strength 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY
as a justification to become more bitter, resentful, punishing, and withholding of the best of your being 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES
negativity that creates illness and neurosis. Rejecting the punishing deity concept, humanity had to tend toward the 221 FAITH AND DOUBT IN TRUTH OR DISTORTION
they think of it in terms of a punishing deity, a cruel, unmerciful ruler who would impose 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS
 
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death, which must certainly not be considered as punishment. Spiritual death is the worst, and it stands 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
its ramifications if the connection between crime and punishment were always so evident. The imperfection which human 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
perhaps also clarify for you the idea of punishment, against which so many of you revolt. There 18 FREE WILL
There is no god who dishes out arbitrary punishment. God has created perfect laws and perfect conditions 18 FREE WILL
freely or not. If you choose the word punishment for that, it is your affair, but you 18 FREE WILL
ANSWER: From the spiritual point of view, capital punishment is wrong. That may sound like a contradiction 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
In general, this does not hold true. Capital punishment is not a necessity. However, war often is 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
is the only basis for peace. But capital punishment is not necessary. QUESTION: You said in my 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
that every crime that is committed and every punishment for it is due to an image. The 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO
desire to be punished. Thus a fear of punishment arises in the soul, which again is almost 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
I will describe next. With the fear of punishment a further reaction sets in. Whenever you are 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
if it were ever to become happy, the punishment, which seems inevitable, would be that much greater 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
this way and thus to avoid even greater punishment. The avoidance creates situations and patterns that always 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
love and hatred, of guilt and fear of punishment exist in every human personality, only the degree 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
being to some degree. Thus the personality inflicts punishment on itself. This may happen in various ways 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
be fortified by the inherent desire for self- punishment; difficulties in this respect will constantly arise in 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
that by being so perfect you can avoid punishment. In this way a second conscience is being 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
you feel more strongly that you cannot avoid punishment. You feel the need for punishment even more 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
cannot avoid punishment. You feel the need for punishment even more than before you invented this second 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
it depends how you look at so- called punishment. It is too proud to realize that you 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
your life. Situations will occur that seem like punishment, while they are actually the remedy to set 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
pleasurable in the world one is subject to punishment from God -- the highest and sternest authority 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
would also like to discuss the role of punishment in the human personality. I discussed your need 53 SELF-LOVE
the immature adult, there exists another form of punishment, the wish to punish another. If the other 53 SELF-LOVE
check your innermost reactions where the element of punishment may come in. When you have found it 53 SELF-LOVE
some spiritual law and in that sense is punishment. Shouldn't we say to ourselves, it is right 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
way out, thinking thus to ward off greater punishment, to be inflicted upon you by others and 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
there is an arbitrary god who metes out punishment and reward according to his whim. And even 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
and of divine justice, without any thought of punishment and retribution. You begin to understand that whatever 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
throne above you, arbitrarily handing out reward and punishment, fortune and misfortune. But in your health, in 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
to be like a person, arbitrarily meting out punishment and reward. That is the result of making 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
in one way or another. Perhaps the worst punishment was that your parents withdrew their affection from 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
longer loved. No wonder badness associated itself with punishment and unhappiness, goodness with reward and happiness. Hence 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
that recognition the weight will be shifted from punishment to healing. But the possibility of perpetrating further 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
inner freedom through treatment. This would feel like punishment anyway for the criminal, for the infringement of 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
a very misleading conclusion. Immature emotions earned you punishment as a child; either they caused you actual 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
that you do not deserve happiness but rather punishment because you are imperfect -- and the urge 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
not mean, my friends, that this is a punishment by an arbitrary God. It is inherent in 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS
yourself produces what unconsciously you may consider as punishment. (3) If your will is so strong that 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
being. God is not perceived as acting -- punishment or reward, or guidance along certain ways in 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT
an effect and manifest as though it were punishment from the outside. When someone's motives are already 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
is self-punishment, at the same time fear of punishment, and also fear of and resistance to giving 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF
glance, appear like the concept of reward and punishment. I might say that this concept is a 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE
of the process I have explained. Reward and punishment suppose an outer authority who hands out the 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE
of the individual's actions and attitudes. Reward or punishment are often supposed to take place only in 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE
disadvantage. The very existence of a belief in punishment and reward covers up the deep despair that 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE
magical intercessions from heaven, reward for faith and punishment for doubt. It simply describes the dynamics I 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE
of seeing how you want to deal out punishment to those you blame can you truly understand 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS
Your not complying with my demands deserves the punishment of my annihilation. And the blind person who 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS
your demands, your own ungiving intentions and the punishment you mete out when your demands are not 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY
inferior and unlovable. Your misery seems a just punishment rather than a choice you are free to 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY
whenever it encounters such a negative intentionality. This punishment often takes the form of severe accusations that 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY
predestines it for you in a spirit of punishment or reward. That kind of thinking totally misses 218 THE EVOLUTIONARY PROCESS
repercussions become more unpleasant? This is not a punishment, my friends. It is the grace of God 218 THE EVOLUTIONARY PROCESS
is a direct connection between self-hate, fear of punishment, fear of death and the disintegration of the 226 APPROACH TO SELF -- SELF-FORGIVENESS WITHOUT CONDONING THE LOWER SELF
destroy, but it will not be fear of punishment that would hold them back. No rigid rule 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION
of your worthiness, receiving love threatens a worse punishment and exposes you to the pain of your 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD
a tooth makes admitting a sin impossible. The punishment is too terrible. Therefore the truth, or even 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY

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