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you should remember that your fault has a positive side or background, so to say. Build on 32 DECISION-MAKING
all. Often you are only aware of the positive side of a particular trend, while you ignore 32 DECISION-MAKING
accused, because for you only the unconscious, unaware positive side appears to exist. The human being is 32 DECISION-MAKING
realms the goal becomes the self. Use the positive aspects to cleanse this current of its exaggerated 32 DECISION-MAKING
change from within, gradually, in the only way positive and constructive growth can ever take place. And 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
people, particularly nowadays, who force themselves to think positive thoughts. But that is not what I mean 36 PRAYER
do not follow suit in harmony with the positive thoughts, then there is a self-deception that may 36 PRAYER
good and bad -- and to retain a positive attitude. The distortion is in the struggle of 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
exist is a distortion of a healthy and positive attitude. To find the right way is not 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
You might contend that people can also have positive, healthy images engraved on their soul. That is 38 IMAGES
fate that is inevitable in a spirit of positive and constructive self-search, in an attitude of humble 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
need a great amount of will, in a positive sense. Isn't that clear? Can you explain why 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
courage that comes from fear? ANSWER: Definitely. A positive attribute can originate in either a positive or 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
A positive attribute can originate in either a positive or a negative motive or current. That is 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
same applies to faults. But the natural and positive extension of will is courage. Both will and 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
aspects of life. Will needs active pressure, either positive or negative. It needs activity. In the purified 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
are charged with emotion. This principle applies to positive as well as negative thought forms. The strongest 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES
comes from weakness and fear can never produce positive results. The fact that this attitude was adopted 47 THE WALL WITHIN
does not alter the results. To achieve a positive outcome, a free, strong and independent choice has 47 THE WALL WITHIN
observation, a very warm interest in other people, positive feelings, also a certain basic detachment. The time 48 THE LIFE FORCE IN THE UNIVERSE
emotional maturity you will no longer fear your positive feelings, either, because you will accept an occasional 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
an occasional hurt. You will risk expressing your positive feelings rather than withholding them from others, because 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
previously about expectation, especially in the form of positive thinking as opposed to acceptance? ANSWER: Each of 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
distorted when you embrace its extreme. Rightly understood, positive thinking means knowing that everything must turn to 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
through them. The most constructive attitude is a positive acceptance of yourself and life's risks. It includes 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
yourself and to face life as it is. Positive thinking, when abused, avoids facing that which is 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
these basic religious attitudes. The wrong kind of positive thinking is self-willed and impatient. The wrong kind 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
in a hurry, which the wrong interpretation of positive thinking tries to do. Eventually your emotions will 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
not clear about yourself, you can have a positive and optimistic attitude consciously, but unconsciously you can 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
with the negative attitude. So underneath both the positive and negative attitudes something else may be hidden 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
lack healthy resistance. I mean resistance in the positive sense, as when you resist disease, and not 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
of your own weakness will have the same positive effect. Another motive for holding opinions not your 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
afraid of unhappiness; that you do not avoid positive involvement because you are afraid of negative involvement 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
gratefulness and joy of living, which are purely positive. The borderline between the two emotions is very 53 SELF-LOVE
to where you deviate from the healthy and positive attitude. But beware of the opposite extreme, of 53 SELF-LOVE
whose life force is strong, who have a positive outlook on life, one can be reasonably certain 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
through the difficulties, through the crucifixion in as positive and healthy a spirit as possible. And when 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
a spirit as possible. And when I say positive, I do not mean for you to deny 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
us now consider these principles separately in their positive, as well as in their negative aspects. The 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
impatience, thoughtlessness. The principle of restriction in its positive aspect means equilibrium, balance -- for it is 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
selfishness, egocentricity, separateness. The static principle in its positive aspect stands for preservation. At first sight it 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
static principle is of particular significance. In its positive aspect it represents the ultimate goal, the highest 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
different state of affairs in a constructive and positive way -- which includes seeking and understanding the 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
your unconscious negative side and not to the positive side, even though the positive has won out 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
not to the positive side, even though the positive has won out in your outer actions. This 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
to turn the course of events in a positive direction. When you experience the existence of this 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
to your past good efforts. It is a positive chain reaction. If your entire attitude and life 59 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
stronger. At other times they recede and the positive aspects come to the fore. Understanding this very 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
be what was said. Subjective coloring, due to positive or negative emotions, will cease; in its stead 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
not work itself out against you. Then a positive and healthy reaction would come out of the 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
the negative decision would turn out to be positive for you. You cannot try to understand this 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
disaster. Are there within the child already these positive and negative forces which it projects and by 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
the negative of a photograph compared with the positive. What is black in one, is white in 62 MAN AND WOMAN
out disagreements. It is very possible that the positive motive exists to a stronger degree than the 62 MAN AND WOMAN
the soul until the next incarnation. QUESTION: Would positive karma also work in this way? ANSWER: Yes 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
for you at this particular time. With this positive result, you may find it impossible to solve 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
in peace, be in God! 68. SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES Greetings, my 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
human being suppresses not only negative aspects, but positive and creative tendencies in the soul as well 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
new approach in searching for the suppression of positive and creative tendencies as they clamor for the 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
may think it makes no sense to suppress positive aspects since only the negative is unpleasant to 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
you will be able to bring the suppressed positive tendencies to the surface and view them in 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
between the suppression of the negative and the positive aspects is often quite strong. Your dependency on 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
will certainly be easier to search for suppressed positive tendencies which you now know deserve full right 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
mean a discipline that suppresses anything, negative or positive, in you. This concept is, unfortunately, often misunderstood 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
at the time from following through with a positive, creative impulse because, as you are now seriously 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
conditions of your inner life. This includes the positive and the negative conditions. It is sometimes more 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
more difficult to assimilate and constructively absorb the positive results of your inner life. The existence of 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
as at its worst. The rhythmic change from positive to negative outer manifestation, and back again, alternating 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
to have a different approach to both the positive and the negative manifestations. Only thus will the 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
an unreality. You may think that in the positive manifestation it does not matter: If I am 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
spiritual law -- and to that end, a positive perception of our being in God. ANSWER: One 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
may be other negative emotions; if they are positive, you are deceiving yourself even more. Only by 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
your motives really are. Look behind the apparent positive outer appearances. Use your findings, your images and 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
It is so with any kind of emotion, positive or negative, good or bad. Your conflicts, your 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
your own problems, increasingly affect the healthy and positive part of the other's personality. This work increases 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
began, all these feelings -- good or bad, positive or negative, joyful or painful -- have existed 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
as much part of your world as the positive. You automatically tune into that which corresponds to 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
start to think and visualize that there are positive and negative currents, it makes me think that 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
do I switch in order to contact the positive? ANSWER: What I spoke about tonight should not 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
strength and insight to become one with the positive currents. Your very reaction is proof of the 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
do so when you exaggerate and dramatize a positive feeling about a person. And you do so 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
that the meaning of these words has a positive, rather than a negative implication. It does not 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
happiness. In your fullness, you progressively attract more positive experience. In your soul-sickness and error, productive of 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
it if you stand still. This can be positive in the sense of taking a firm stand 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
you will find that you superimpose not only positive but also negative emotions on your genuine feelings 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
it up. You will shed the pretense of positive and negative attitudes, trends, desires and motivations. Instead 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
You may think it is merely a strong positive quality, and as such it cannot or should 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
but it will come from motives that are positive and conscious. Try to visualize this strong, forward-surging 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
death, your embrace of life will have a positive spirit. This alone can solve the problem of 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
you were untouched by it, except in the positive sense, because the experience caused you to grow 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
era of death and destruction? Three, can any positive lesson be learned by mankind through reviving this 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
Again it depends on the individual. A positive lesson could be learned by individuals, as well 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
learned through it. By the same token, a positive as well as a negative lesson could be 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
truly felt -- the lesson will be a positive one. On the other hand, not reviving it 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
up. Even if you are ashamed of something positive and constructive, the very fact that you are 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
and deducing to feeling and experiencing all your positive and negative emotions. I cannot emphasize this enough 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
element will stand in the way of the positive. Those of you who now follow this path 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
applies not only to negative but also to positive or favorable incidents. This dramatizing is based on 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS
repression of negative emotions, as well as of positive goals, a futility, lack of self-confidence, and therefore 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
needs, and, in connection with them, repressed emotions, positive and negative. In the third phase we investigate 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES
you had relinquished something. Look perhaps first for positive examples; they might make it much easier for 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT
see in each of the two alternatives a positive and a negative side, and therefore you cannot 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT
come into being through the split of a positive idea: self- forgiveness and fully facing one's sin 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT
take on self-responsibility. Due to the split, these positive ideas have now a counterpart in self-indulgence and 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT
Because of the split in yourself into both positive and negative trends, confusion sets in in the 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT
manifestation to the world's. The rebellion has a positive aspect too; one may call it healthy self-assertion 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT
always tempting to pride oneself on having a positive attitude, thus covering up a negative one. Why 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT
It will take some time before new, constructive, positive causes can go into force and produce comparable 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF
itself through understanding your emotions' origin, before the positive feelings, coming from your real self, follow suit 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION
participate in life? The shallow artificiality of superimposed positive emotions lacks real substance and is therefore untrustworthy 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION
refer to both sadism and masochism, calling one positive, the other negative. How do you regard this 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
immediate concerns. In moments of actual danger such positive feelings would be detrimental. When the danger is 101 THE DEFENSE
and undermines the healthy one and diminishes its positive effect. Now as to what is natural. It 101 THE DEFENSE
being. Every human being has, in both a positive and a negative aspect, every emotion, trend, or 101 THE DEFENSE
The reasons why the same quality displays its positive facet at one time and its negative at 101 THE DEFENSE
feeling appears to be negative, while an apparently positive feeling may weaken you if it is dishonest 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS
the fact that a destructive feeling may produce positive results in certain cases does not make the 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS
certain cases does not make the feeling itself positive, healthy, or productive. The seventh cardinal sin is 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS
you give it. A person who has a positive, constructive attitude toward life will not be slothful 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS
anger, you use the weapon of turning a positive into a negative feeling. You feel resentment, rejection 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
negative emotions are bound to build destructive results. Positive emotions build constructive results. If the mind is 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION
the real self, and is functioning on a positive level, and then one discovers a neurotic trend 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION
negative manifestation is often an indication that a positive transitory phase is occurring. QUESTION: How does that 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP
the negative emotions which do not allow the positive emotions to come to fruition because you harbor 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING
a person's attitude toward life is correct and positive, his feelings will be right also, and consequently 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
problems. It is according to these potentials -- positive, as well as negative -- that the entity 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
happy or unhappy. Where the underlying potential is positive, the corresponding soul-stuff will be so resilient that 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
split -- which in this sense is a positive development compared to the person who can have 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
to repression, is unable to attain the desired positive result. It is always the split motives -- 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
lend itself to deeper exploration. Constructive, realistic, and positive feelings do not conflict with time, because time 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME
to understand this, my friends. For the child, positive identification is desirable. For an adult, a positive 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF
positive identification is desirable. For an adult, a positive identification is often as undesirable as a negative 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF
on again. Beware of this temptation. The warm, positive, generous, loving, unselfish feelings must follow eventually, and 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
should be on the lookout for what is positive in you. You often jeopardize your inner security 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
the psyche no longer needs to produce falsely positive feelings. Such fear is a result of self-centeredness 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
light on the exact opposite. Apparently favorable and positive factors in childhood can be equally responsible for 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
with unending creativity and love. These wells of positive energy can be tapped to the degree that 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS
No consists of. Many people believe that a positive attitude toward life means ignoring the negative in 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
genuine -- not superimposed -- hope, and a positive attitude toward life. You will glean that what 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
affects the soul substance negatively, even if the positive attitude is stronger and conscious, while the negative 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
nature you are a much more constructive, accepting, positive person than you artificially make yourself. Once the 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
rigid soul movements. Truthful concepts create relaxed, warm, positive feelings and flexible, harmonious, rhythmic, organic soul movements 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE
a current of trust which will have its positive effect. In other words, when you find yourself 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES

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