| grasping forcing current, loudly proclaiming, I want! In order to get what I want, I either submit | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| inner re- education would be most important in order to create a new humanity, so that one | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| incentive to do the maximum of self-search, in order to fully accept the responsibility of parenthood. Thus | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| the transition from one state into another. In order to do so, you must become fully aware | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| of separateness in which you assume that in order to have more for yourself you have to | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| state of mind, how do I switch in order to contact the positive? ANSWER: What I spoke | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| is necessary to see a few incarnations in order to evaluate the task and the cause and | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| not exactly pleasant, it may be necessary in order to accomplish whatever remains to be accomplished. You | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| sent to us by the Spirit World in order to teach us a lesson, why then are | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| you unconsciously think you have to express in order to be happy, or just to survive. Whatever | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| based on a fundamental misunderstanding about life. In order to get a comprehensive view of the subject | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| from childhood with the rarely conscious conviction: In order to be happy, my will has to be | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| beg, cry, submit and sell your soul in order to get what you want. Nor do you | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| you always have to get your will in order to be happy, will you be free of | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| that they must get what they want in order to be happy. Their way is to reject | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| you feel guilty about. If you attack in order to hide something, it will make you as | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| upward with all that this calls for in order to pursue it, willing to pay the price | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| desire to appear better than you are, in order to belong, to be loved and accepted, it | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| find. To find oneself is such a big order. If he has to wait to get the | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| might have to go to another area in order to progress. So, my dearest ones, be blessed | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| one fulfills the need of the other in order to get his or her own need fulfilled | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| -- with which you sell your soul in order to get love. When this tendency is on | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| own soul that disentangling these knots and reestablishing order will be much more difficult. When you have | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| One fulfills the need of the other in order to get his own need fulfilled. Why is | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| its own proof of distortion and deviation. In order to avoid that, you do not have to | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| start working out what the cause was, in order to avoid a recurrence of the psychosis. But | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| to wait to experience actual physical death in order to learn how to die. Not only can | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| your being that clings to life only in order to avoid death. This motivation is negative and | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| to arrive at the result through shortcuts in order to avoid the unpleasantness of facing the illusory | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| forms of suffering, must also be experienced in order to discover that they are not the extremes | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| process are necessary all the way through, in order to realize when a little truth corresponds with | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| within yourself an inner tyranny of the worst order. You do not realize the impossibility of being | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| idealized self has been called into existence in order to attain self-confidence and therefore, finally, happiness, pleasure | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| you take out of that live center in order to invest into the robot you have created | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| still believe you need the idealized self in order to live and be happy. Once you understand | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| demands, its requirements of self and others in order to maintain the illusion. Once you fully see | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| is important for us to face death in order to live fully. There is, at present, great | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| the death of these millions of unfortunates in order to learn something for ourselves individually? Two, is | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| overcome, unfortunately often in the wrong way. In order to master the difficulties created, not only in | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| solution is hardly able to experience love. In order to receive love, such people develop several typical | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| Taking on more and more self-effacing characteristics in order to gain the love and protection which alone | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| their goodness, holiness, unselfishness. When they sacrifice in order to finally possess a strong and loving protector | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| with very discerning eyes at these trends in order to find out how he or she idealized | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| your needs. In other words, you comply in order to have others comply with you; you submit | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| have others comply with you; you submit in order to dominate, although such domination must always manifest | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| again, have to be projected onto others, in order to remain unaware of the pain of such | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| soul needs health to live most constructively. In order to live, one needs to be safe from | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| and manifests erroneously. Your soul believes that in order to preserve its life and safety, you have | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| the instinct of self-preservation starts to work. In order to ward off danger, the personality assumes certain | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| adopted. The first two solutions are adopted in order to cope with life. The last is adopted | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| cope with life. The last is adopted in order to cope with the conflict resulting from the | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| the alternatives of safety or pleasure. For, in order to obtain happiness, fulfillment, bliss, pleasure, a certain | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| others, and what their original purpose was. In order to determine this, the emotions you once felt | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| predominant tendency is the quest for power in order to be safe, with all the accompanying hostility | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| predominant tendency is a quest for love in order to receive pleasure, with all the accompanying self-effacement | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| to feel as you think you should, in order to stick to your private solution, and if | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| solution of superior power no longer works. In order to get what he wants and thinks he | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| accomplish further insight, growth, and self- understanding. In order to accomplish this without unnecessary delay, do not | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| than to feelings, to your inner life. In order to spotlight the feelings without courting the dangers | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| the language of all the earth. ANSWER: In order to explain fully only the passage you have | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| Where do I have to go now in order to alleviate this condition? What should I do | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| minority also represents rules, but of a different order. The rule then may be ruthlessness, dominion over | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| with its pseudo-solutions. The pseudo-solutions are adopted in order to cope with the God-image, and that, in | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| free. Therefore obedience had to be stressed in order to protect society. Superficially this may seem right | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| convey the idea of a stern God-authority in order to prevent crime. There are other means to | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| It is those tendencies that are exploited in order to maintain false religion. You know by now | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| hidden striving to remain a helpless child in order to make the grown-up world -- or God | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| cling to a stronger authority than yourself in order to avoid effort and responsibility, you cannot help | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| change it by a mere outer decision. In order to make an inner decision, the procedure has | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| A certain period of self-observation is necessary in order to gain full insight and then be able | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| one of you, blessed is this hour. In order to know yourself on a deeper level, it | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| tasted the difficulties you have to face in order to overcome the resistance. You all stand more | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| portion of humanity cultivates the mental side. In order to do so you learn, you use your | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| that technical skill also becomes a necessity in order to give the creative outflow full expression. Creative | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| step to live through negative, immature emotions in order to afford them the opportunity to grow and | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| was to dull the capacity to feel in order to avoid pain. From that moment onward, you | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| destructive emotions to come to the fore in order to relieve yourself of pressure and give them | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| But you constantly reach for false solutions in order to create an illusion of security that can | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| to borrow a rigid structure of morality in order to protect yourself from your untamed instincts. You | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| ANSWER: The first and most important measure in order to establish the answer to this question is | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| to communicate with God. I wanted it in order to develop myself. But do you really develop | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| do not have to do anything further in order to make a go of life? Such unhealthy | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| do I do, where do I go in order to develop this feeling for God? ANSWER: As | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| yourself. And that is all you need in order to find God. There are so many people | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| the need to satisfy vanity or pride. In order to understand this particular process, you have to | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| make a choice: to relinquish one thing in order to eventually obtain what is more rewarding for | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| Where it may be necessary to relinquish in order to receive greater fulfillment, you cannot do so | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| makes it possible to pursue their gratification. In order to do so, frustration sometimes becomes necessary and | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| of occasionally relinquishing the need for harmony in order to gratify the other needs, everything is fine | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| yourself. You want to speed yourself on in order to free yourself, yet you cannot do so | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| misconception that you have to be perfect in order to experience happiness and fulfillment. But this is | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| necessary before the nucleus can be affected. In order to help you a little from the outside | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| investigate the defense mechanism you have developed in order to obtain what seemed to you a protection | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| feel. You have to recognize its presence in order to become fully aware of the damage it | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| would be: I have to be successful in order to be loved. And: Approval for my professional | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| you to go through an inner change. In order to do that, you need to see the | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| dissolve it by this relaxing, softening-up process. In order to be able to do so, you have | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| active and able to receive new inspiration in order to change an old ill brought on by | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| have to remove outer layers of awareness in order to find false needs before you find the | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| It is completely individual. My advice is, in order to determine whether or not it is healthy | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| that you feel you have to remain in order to be safe. To give up being a | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| to stress sin and evil as much in order to discourage contempt and arrogance. Until only very | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| much at the core of your impatience. In order to deal with this condition, as always, it | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| productive, genuine feelings whose guidance you need in order to fully participate in life? The shallow artificiality | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| imperfection as such. You must be aware in order to discriminate between changing to obtain more fulfillment | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| imperfections and do not need to pretend in order to hide them, only then do you grow | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| that your pretense may be shown up. In order to guard against exposure, you invest valuable energies | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| is a deep, involved, complex being. Therefore, in order to be undivided and unified, these levels have | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| involved, and complex levels of their soul, in order to attain the maximum development in all areas | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| the person to overlook what is not in order yet and what could be brought out. However | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| realize that you wish to do it in order to live a fuller and happier life, and | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| discipline to repress your desire to daydream in order to improve your life will not serve any | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| which gives you a certain unreal sense of order and security. You think you know where you | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| However, the price you pay for this precarious order and security is so much bigger than what | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| have to learn for a whole lifetime in order to correct such mistakes or distortions. ANSWER: How | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| its development, this will no longer happen. In order to get to this place, the error has | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| to and concentrated on this one danger. In order to deal with an urgent issue at the | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| or mental -- than you normally have in order to defend yourself. Or you will quickly judge | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| out of repression and reach surface awareness in order for you to understand its origin and then | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| martyr. All this is an unconscious manipulation in order to get one's own way. Since this tendency | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| neighbor's, but rather living in that house in order to impress your neighbor, or to make your | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| that says you must not pursue results in order to have peace. You must not have any | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| that by using your mind and will in order to understand the confusion and error of your | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| need their memory, and they need intelligence in order to cope with life. They also need their | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| are, you would have nothing to fear. In order to do so, you would have to see | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| from your dependency on public opinion. Then, in order to resolve the problem that hinders your full | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| should become the slayer of the mind in order to reach reality? ANSWER: Yes, it is the | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| difficulty one has to be aware of in order to take on the habit of looking, seeing | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| lives in the now, but without awareness. In order to live in the now in awareness, various | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| or reward, or guidance along certain ways in order to take away the effort of man. He | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| overlap. They do not always follow in this order, because the human personality is not made up | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| one should not do what one can in order to eliminate wrong or evil. Only, you should | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| you should understand what is really necessary in order to change the world. As long as you | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| them in a free spirit, and not in order to use one relationship against the other, then | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| and realistic answers come from inside yourself. In order to tap the well, outside help is necessary | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| deny and betray the best in yourself in order to get approval. They may not be aware | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| effect with the newness that is necessary in order to derive deeper understanding. Were humans able to | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| the real ones. You need to atone in order for your soul to become healthy and peaceful | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| to recognize. It is still vastly underestimated. In order to become capable of facing your lower self | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| repair damage that cannot otherwise be repaired. In order to muster the necessary courage and concentration, you | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| false faith covers fear, insecurity, childish needs. In order to establish true faith all falsity has to | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| do not have to talk about God in order to be in God. To face the truth | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| faith and hope cover their hidden opposites. In order to fully understand your guilts, you have to | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| be a defense. You artificially overproduce sensitivity in order to evade something. You may evade insight and | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| a free spirit of giving, and not in order to appease, whether someone else or your own | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| attitude is a necessary protection for you in order to cope with life. If you really see | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| of conditions that have to be fulfilled in order to make any of your everyday appliances work | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| and complicated combination of conditions and prerequisites in order to function is more intricately involved than anything | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| life, from being in truth and reality. In order to flow with life, your soul-stuff has to | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| essence. This is very difficult to explain; in order to understand, you would have to perceive what | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |