| Needy.......................7 | |
| desirable rejecter than be identified with the weak, needy and dependent parent. As far as your innermost | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| you do not wish to be weak and needy, you not only emulate the person who corresponds | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| be something constructive. Yet, you are the craving, needy child who wants to be the center of | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| up to being fallible, human, vulnerable, irrational, wrong, needy, defenseless, weak and unhappy must by necessity increase | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| of this path; you will no longer be needy because you will know that everything exists within | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| and some where they feel impoverished and therefore needy. It is hardly ever just one way. So | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| if this leaves you feeling empty, pained, and needy. However, do not lose sight of another state | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| Negate......................34 | |
| of other deviations in the personality does not negate the principle. We are not discussing the many | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| torn between two unsatisfactory and damaging attempts to negate death. These artificial, forceful, and cramped attempts bring | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| order to be a good, obedient child, you negate this possibility. You are afraid of the pride | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| negative? Is it true or not true? They negate before they find a true basis for accepting | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| your negativity or destructiveness, which you deny and negate. This was very important. Now a second major | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| of expanding with your feelings into life, you negate life and your feelings and retract from life | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| and relaxed way. You must not abdicate, or negate, the participation of the ego in the act | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| is. There is no denial, no attempt to negate. The same applies to any emotion. The moment | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| an overall attitude for all contingencies and to negate the negating principle. I am showing once again | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| and hopelessness must be in error, for they negate the very essence of life. And those who | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| unable to solve the problem. You begin to negate, deny, evade, repress whatever is destructive in you | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| for this very purpose. When you no longer negate your ugliness, you will no longer have to | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| your ugliness, you will no longer have to negate your beauty. There is so much beauty in | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| free. You actually manifest beauty that you totally negate, ignore, fail to perceive and experience! And I | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| in others. You tend to completely reject and negate people whose destructiveness you perceive, and react to | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| feel guilty. For instance, I overspend money. I negate that aspect of myself completely. Can you help | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| Now, what you describe is so typical. You negate everything about your destructive impulse. You are thus | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| hard and too frantically for what you unconsciously negate all the harder, and you find yourself in | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| awareness of a totally irrational, self-destructive will to negate what is desirable does not automatically eliminate it | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| attitudes and destructive thoughts and feelings that always negate the truth of life are bound to create | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| already aware of the latter, you may still negate its importance. If you are not aware of | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| case with jealousy and/or envy -- you also negate the fact that it is you who cut | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| away; and, third, if you examined how you negate it, how you reject aspects of the very | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| their fulfillment, and their center, while you still negate and struggle against being in your center, against | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| expansion, and joyful self-expression. You willfully doubt and negate abundance under the guise of intellectual considerations, and | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| grasp on the one hand, and deny and negate on the other. Denial and negation express distrust | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| in all areas of course. But when you negate the effect of this negativity on others, you | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| it has on others. To the extent you negate and ignore the effect you have on others | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| to tackle and set in order. Often people negate personal order as an important aspect of life | 205 ORDER AS A UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE |
| more important than inner content, and may even negate that an inner reality or content exists at | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| and what do I get from it? you negate that your giving was ever genuine in the | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| well as by the Western mystics. These disciplines negate worldly fulfillment and consider it an antithesis to | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| and success in life, how then can you negate this life that the Creator has given you | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| your world: about struggle. Many spiritual movements totally negate its necessity and advocate the detachment, not only | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| Negated.....................13 | |
| so much that the life force is completely negated. It is a very self-destructive and damaging way | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| function either, if the greater divine will is negated or unconsciously defeated. This is why there is | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| subterfuges are more unacceptable than whatever you originally negated. Thus you compound your self-hate and widen the | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| regard to what is affirmed and what is negated, there are also two possibilities: In some instances | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| but by trying out attitudes that were totally negated and ignored before. Some examples of new attitudes | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| to (4) the eventual comprehension of those previously negated and hated aspects, which means their dissolution and | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| wish to imply that it should be totally negated, denied, and insulted. The ego is part of | 199 THE MEANING OF THE EGO AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| past century, whose spirit is still prevalent now, negated the concept of self-responsibility. In broader terms of | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| is trusted, while the greater divine self is negated. This does not mean that the ego should | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| focus on areas that it has ignored and negated, creating the agonizing struggle in the first place | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| nothing as such must be thrown out, destroyed, negated. It must be transmuted. You all notice on | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| entity has come for. If the task is negated because inner life and truth are denied, the | 255 THE BIRTHING PROCESS -- COSMIC PULSE |
| to live is strong and yet the path negated. In such instances, the spirit has justified hope | 255 THE BIRTHING PROCESS -- COSMIC PULSE |
| Negates.....................11 | |
| to avoid death. This motivation is negative and negates the life force itself. But if you face | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| against ineffectively, and the personality wants health, it negates that it also wants non-health. Since the striving | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| always there is still this other side that negates and denies the former direction, that fears and | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| the weak, self-indulgent person, the derelict, one who negates all discipline, all responsibility -- as a warning | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| all alone, by sheer outer will. This attitude negates not only the universal powers but also the | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| there is to it. Such thinking ignores and negates the flux of true life. Since you are | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| expansion, growth, fulfillment; while the destructive, ignorant part negates. In other instances, affirming something may be totally | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| threatening. Fear of truth -- hence resistance -- negates the benign quality of the universe; it negates | 197 ENERGY AND CONSCIOUSNESS IN DISTORTION: EVIL |
| negates the benign quality of the universe; it negates the truth of the self, with all its | 197 ENERGY AND CONSCIOUSNESS IN DISTORTION: EVIL |
| you longs for and another part of you negates. But you still do not bring this knowledge | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| truly an infant who leans on others, who negates her autonomy. So to be fully receptive on | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| Negating....................24 | |
| the way out of duality by no longer negating, but facing up to it. This will then | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| be one form of running away from or negating death and, therefore, life. Only they who have | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| a little while longer until you convince the negating part to become flexible and grow with the | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| either that they must strive for immediate perfection, negating their still existing imperfection, or that they must | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| moment you can really see yourself in this negating process, you are already in a more affirming | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| facing the negativity, understanding that here I am negating rather than affirming; here I express the negation | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| way, or it can turn into a destructive, negating current. In order to understand this process in | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| miss out on your real inherent wisdom, while negating and denying the childish misunderstandings in your personality | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| receptive to life. The No current represents the negating principle. It pulls back, retracts, denies, shrinks into | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| affirmative principle is good and desirable, while the negating principle is sick, bad, undesirable. Religion itself has | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| God as the affirmative, the Devil as the negating power. This is, at best, a half truth | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| condition, a destructive attitude, is as undesirable as negating a positive, constructive condition or attitude? To an | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| attitude for all contingencies and to negate the negating principle. I am showing once again that the | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| remain separated from it, as long as the negating attitude remains. You can connect with your spirit | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| defensive attitude cripples vitality and joy and exudes negating attitudes that are bound to bring the very | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| life for one's unhappiness is another way of negating self-responsibility, as mentioned before. Such blame always incurs | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| Anyone of you who is specifically aware of negating what he or she consciously desires, and yet | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| thought processes. If you are not aware of negating the movement toward the expanding experience, you lose | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| either adopting a false, escaping, separating spirituality, or negating the greater reality altogether. In both instances, misconceptions | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| are truly face to face with a basic negating attitude toward life: an attitude that expresses no | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| intention to hold on to the state of negating life and the self. The mere word intention | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| put yourself in the most preposterous position of negating the riches of the universe, and then doubting | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| can take these steps of transition, not by negating the evil and the underlying pain, but taking | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| and feelings. If you recognize your own doubting, negating ego in the tricks it produces, and if | 200 THE COSMIC FEELING |