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hesitation and the uncertainty. Self-punishment for hidden wrong motives is only one reason that prohibits your wish- 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
will also find wrong, impure, selfish, and unhealthy motives in your desires that are not directed toward 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
for inferiority feelings is self- deception about your motives: why you want or do certain things. When 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
around in circles, begin to see clearly your motives, your desires, and what you want them to 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
will have to say to yourself, Yes, these motives or attitudes are wrong, in further honesty you 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
the honesty to see that there are wrong motives and attitudes in you, but also the additional 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
how much hidden or covered up with worthy motives and plausible rationalizations. The subtler the form of 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
you have made your recognition. But your inner motives will change. In some cases, your outer actions 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
concerned with is understanding yourself: your emotions, your motives, your desires and fears. All these can be 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
effect, unless and until he uncovers his unconscious motives, desires and conflicts. Then, as you all experience 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
as a screen to hide and foster erroneous motives. In woman it often serves to encourage her 62 MAN AND WOMAN
in man, his weakness and dependence. When healthy motives are muddled with unhealthy ones and one does 62 MAN AND WOMAN
convinced did not contain any but the purest motives. What I said before about marriage in this 62 MAN AND WOMAN
This truth, then, will be ineffective because the motives are wrong, the underlying feelings are unhealthy. One 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
a belief has come about, on what inner motives it is based -- that is what matters 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
bound to bring to the fore all distorted motives, no matter how deeply hidden and unconscious. Thereby 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
which is constructive in you, based on healthy motives, rather than on unhealthy ones. Other people are 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
such misconceptions, you act from erroneous and unhealthy motives from which no one can truly benefit. With 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
dissatisfaction. This is a telling sign that erroneous motives underlie such acts, possibly based on this common 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
always: How is it done? What are the motives? In what way will it be used, if 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
The answer always lies in the direction, the motives, the aim, the whys and the hows. QUESTION 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
selfish as to overshadow the good and healthy motives, but also because the unconscious deviations and misconceptions 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
is relatively small or not disturbed by unhealthy motives. Your inner will is still kept from functioning 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
anew. Outer will can be composed of healthy motives too. Unhealthy motives, such as self- importance, pride 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
can be composed of healthy motives too. Unhealthy motives, such as self- importance, pride, vanity, or the 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
as to find out why, and investigate what motives and uncertainties block your inner will. This will 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
be well advised to look into the unhealthy motives which can exist side by side with the 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
you free yourself of the unhealthy and erroneous motives may give you a renewed incentive for doing 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
completely aware of all your wishes, impulses, and motives. Only in that way can you discriminate and 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
in the right and mature way without ulterior motives and out of free choice, you will reap 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
continue the work of self-search, of examining your motives and concepts in comparison with objective truth, until 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
that it is to your advantage, provided your motives are right, your decision free, your reactions mature 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
desire may be justified, but many unconscious, unhealthy motives may exist together with the healthy ones. At 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
performed the right actions out of the wrong motives. You can, if you wish, continue to do 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
are doing this act and what your real motives are. In most cases, you will find that 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
may choose to continue it, even while your motives are still confused. In either case, the important 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
the important thing is to recognize your feelings, motives, and reactions; your inner, and often unconscious concepts 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
the free choice myself, knowing all these wrong motives, but at the same time desiring to change 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
in spite of the recognition of your negative motives, you are not fully aware of all your 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
Hence his wish-capacity can function even though the motives are impure. The mere fact that the impure 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
impure. The mere fact that the impure, selfish motives become conscious causes the wish-capacity to function better 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
can come from healthy, as well as unhealthy motives. This outer will can succeed if it is 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
the same. If you deceive yourself and your motives and thereby create a confused and disharmonious situation 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
always constructive, provided one has no hidden selfish motives, no self-deceptions, and provided it is combined with 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
motive can I have? Sometimes there are hidden motives and emotions, other than the obvious, loving ones 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
often sought with the best of intentions, the motives are not entirely healthy. If however, one seeks 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
realization and a discriminating attitude toward your inner motives will give you strength by enabling you to 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF
a path of self-knowledge, of understanding one's innermost motives and feelings -- especially the responsible people. It 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
or inclination in us that has exclusively healthy motives? ANSWER: This question is not easy to answer 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
is harmful. For instance, if unrecognized, selfish, vain motives play a role, the effect can be bad 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
effect can be bad. In fact, outer selfish motives, fully recognized by the hypnotist, may be less 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
the person who is conscious of the best motives, but unaware of certain insecurities, causing a particular 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
yourself of your deviations with all their negative motives, you will be able to bring the suppressed 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
your wanting the right goal and having pure motives, your negative tendencies played a role in your 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
approval? Or was the wish based on unhealthy motives in the first place? Was there underneath the 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
the first place? Was there underneath the unhealthy motives a very healthy one you could not see 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
your guilt about the existence of the unhealthy motives? Would you have had the courage to follow 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
follow through with your desire if the unhealthy motives had been absent? Would you then have stood 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
or weakens with the absence of the unhealthy motives? You can try to formulate and answer these 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
necessarily. As I said before, often the inner motives overlap and interplay. You will have to establish 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
whether you desired this goal because of unhealthy motives, or whether the unhealthy motives merely covered the 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
because of unhealthy motives, or whether the unhealthy motives merely covered the form of self-expression best fitted 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
you must love me. Weaker persons with unhealthy motives of their own may appear to give in 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
ignorant. Out of this self-centeredness and ignorance selfish motives arise, unconsciously or sometimes even half-consciously. You are 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
fog of confusion and unawareness. Even genuinely unselfish motives are not expressed clearly in your thinking. Whenever 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
of your life. Whenever such condition exists, your motives must be mixed with unconscious selfish motives that 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
your motives must be mixed with unconscious selfish motives that produce the negative result. Survey your life 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
anxiety or disharmony. Then check out what your motives really are. Look behind the apparent positive outer 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
crystallize out of them any negative or confused motives and apply them to the trouble area. Or 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
indetermination is often more damaging than clear-cut negative motives and may apply to any area of life 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
You will start to think about clarifying your motives and establishing those that you really want, and 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
not yet be able to shed the selfish motives, the very admission that they exist, the very 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
some extent. But you can recognize the real motives of such behavior truly -- not just theoretically 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
the intuitive perceptions. One of the most important motives for a teacher, if he or she truly 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
path is to ask yourself about your own motives, why you desire a certain thing. You learn 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
as selfishness. Thus you will pray that your motives become purified. Furthermore, there certainly is nothing selfish 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
will be similar, but it will come from motives that are positive and conscious. Try to visualize 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
is accepted out of weakness, which pollutes people's motives. Deeply sensing the untruth of their motivations, they 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
insecurity, frustration, or whatever. Even if these inner motives are covered up by more valid reasons, that 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
reviving it could also happen out of negative motives, such as cowardice, fear, indifference, opportunism, resignation. This 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
truthful insight into the real nature of these motives will reveal the fundamental selfishness and egocentricity prevailing 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
the wrong method and out of the wrong motives. The same is true of the idealized self-image 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
conflicts proportionately influences your activities, thoughts, feelings, and motives. This may occur through the subtle coloring of 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
on how you feel and what the underlying motives are. QUESTION: I try to find words to 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE
about the God that is. I know that motives are important. I may want to worship God 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
some need for a father. Those are my motives. I have a few ideas as to where 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
this feeling for God? ANSWER: As for the motives you cited, they are true, but by no 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
to hear that you not only have negative motives of which you seem so proud, but there 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
want to recognize. But for the moment, the motives are of secondary importance. It is fine that 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
you would, it would happen out of unhealthy motives, just as much as the opposite. Learn first 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
discipline, without independent decision and full conviction, the motives are unhealthy and will not yield constructive results 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF
unhealthy and will not yield constructive results. The motives may be wanting to obey and appease others 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF
You chose the goal out of partly unhealthy motives, and you prohibited yourself from reaching the goal 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
from reaching the goal entirely out of unhealthy motives. This may appear like a paradox, but do 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
may play a role. Even distorted and unhealthy motives, when finally brought out into the open, may 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS
is strained, if it is governed by immature motives, if you are unaware of it, if it 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
he uses his mind to question his own motives; to look at and into himself. Thus he 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT
desire for variety may indicate healthy or unhealthy motives. Often it is a combination of both, though 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP
though you may already have discovered that the motives are selfish and not loving. Your motives may 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
the motives are selfish and not loving. Your motives may be desire for approval and admiration or 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
not for loving. These, of course, are selfish motives. While you may admit to these motives, you 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
selfish motives. While you may admit to these motives, you are convinced that your behavior leaves nothing 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
be true, but the many times when selfish motives induce you to act selfishly, you do not 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
the latter, just as you ignored the selfish motives behind your unselfish acts. Hidden selfish motives induce 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
selfish motives behind your unselfish acts. Hidden selfish motives induce you to act them out, adversely affecting 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
strong wish that is absolutely unhampered by selfish motives, by ambiguous, confused, contradictory emotions, by uncertainty or 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
on the how, why, and what of the motives. This alone determines its value or lack of 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
lives. How is it that people with bad motives so often derive all the happiness and success 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
are cause and effect closer together. Moreover, when motives are split, the effect is influenced accordingly. For 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
no conscience, nothing will interfere with the bad motives, which will, therefore, be unified. Because there is 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
unified. Because there is no split, the bad motives will have an apparently favorable effect. Only later 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
it were punishment from the outside. When someone's motives are already split -- which in this sense 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
compared to the person who can have destructive motives without inner conflict -- success does not come 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
the desired result. On the other hand, constructive motives, no matter how conscious, will not bring the 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
either if they are undermined by unconscious, destructive motives. Hence, a ruthless person may not attain his 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
desired positive result. It is always the split motives -- especially that part of them which one 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
humans and are confused about their actions and motives, disharmony is created. Even if you refrain from 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
and how to be quiet. Merely understanding others' motives -- their truth -- will not give you 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
lectures we have discussed many of the possible motives and reasons for escape. Let us now pay 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
be done half- heartedly, with half-attention or divided motives. Therefore, the outcome will be more and more 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
to escape from the self out of weak motives. Letting go is then an escape which may 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
purpose. People always need a clarification of their motives and concepts: where they are going and why 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE
feeling, and experiencing. This means wholeness, integrity, undivided motives and attention. This state can be achieved only 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
integrity, dishonesty on some level, and division of motives and attention, as well as a refusal to 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
to feel a certain way. Thus, your real motives and the actual situation often escape you. Since 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL
the whole picture of your personality or the motives for the hurting act. There is thus no 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL
as she makes herself helpless for whatever distorted motives. If she is not in possession of her 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS
but pretend to love, for your own ulterior motives. The key to the universe is real love 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS
in itself ungenerous to suspect someone of negative motives when this person is really disposed very favorably 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE
is a stubborn, destructive wish, with very definite motives that must be unearthed, explored, challenged, and held 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE
few do. Most relationships are formed with other motives, or else the original motivation of mutuality was 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW
when it could not be maintained and other motives replaced it. These are basically the three stages 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW
personality that are not immediately accessible. Your unconscious motives often create what you do not wish to 208 THE INNATE HUMAN CAPACITY TO CREATE
those who comply out of their own neurotic motives. You cannot receive the existing or growing love 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
and why you doubt. What are the real motives for doubting? For example, you doubt the existence 221 FAITH AND DOUBT IN TRUTH OR DISTORTION
by the most sincere or the most dishonest motives. Only when you sort out the dishonest motives 227 CHANGE FROM OUTER TO INNER LAWS IN THE NEW AGE
motives. Only when you sort out the dishonest motives on both sides can you open the channel 227 CHANGE FROM OUTER TO INNER LAWS IN THE NEW AGE
law. Again, very close inspection of the real motives and attitudes is the only true answer. There 227 CHANGE FROM OUTER TO INNER LAWS IN THE NEW AGE
so that you cannot be corrupted by lower-self motives. You also need to take each individual issue 227 CHANGE FROM OUTER TO INNER LAWS IN THE NEW AGE
your total integrity and knowledge of your real motives on the most hidden levels, the truth of 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION
its own sake without hidden thoughts and ulterior motives, your security in your own value will be 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION
only appear to give, doing it for ulterior motives, for something you want to gain in a 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION
sure that you do not have other hidden motives but give for the sake of giving -- 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION
word of your negative intentionality and your lower-self motives. Such an admission implies attitudes of truthfulness, humility 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD
of the higher self. Let us consider the motives for perfection on both levels -- that of 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE
level of the ego personality? What are the motives? What are the attitudes? Obviously there is pride 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE
find justification. You give only begrudgingly, with ulterior motives, second thoughts, calculating inner bargains, leaving little back 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION
world for the result. You conceal the true motives for your submission by pretending you are innocent 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM
this freedom unless you confront your real, hidden motives constantly and conscientiously. How much maturity is needed 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS
time in a new spirit, out of different motives, with a clearer vision and knowledge. Your stance 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
depend on and need, and his or her motives. You will not have to grapple with your 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
See both the truth of your hidden lower-self motives and the truth of your higher-self good will 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL
will direction. It also shows the most hidden motives, the most secret intention, the exact balance of 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS
overt actions. Your soul substance registers the hidden motives for non-action. It registers feelings and attitudes that 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS
participants are seriously filled with the purest of motives and directly ask God's eternal presence to help 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT
contract to satisfy other personality functions and lower motives. Financial and social advantages were of primary importance 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE
more significant was the absolute conviction that these motives were morally right and virtuous. Men married women 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE
was fostered; money, power, and social advantage became motives for choosing mates. Mass images, appearances, idealized self-images 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE
They may merely mean that hostile and aggressive motives supersede secrecy. The new man and the new 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY
try to pry because of their own negative motives; they may wish to uncover something they can 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY
enhance their deteriorated self-esteem. If you sense such motives, you should indeed close your doors to them 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY
in keeping yourself hidden, your assessment of others' motives will be very shaky. Transparency is a new 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY

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