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| I want to be God. Why should I submit to this cruel, vindictive, vengeful, inadequate god who | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| communism clearly and abundantly expounded in Scripture. I submit but a few verses which support this. Acts | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| to deceive yourself into believing that when you submit is when you truly love. In other words | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| and philosophies. It seems to you when you submit that you are being unselfish and are offering | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| respect others, even though they do not completely submit to your will. This does not sound like | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| of subtly, emotionally, and unconsciously forcing others to submit, you construct unreal situations by wishful thinking. In | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| order to get what I want, I either submit and allow myself to be mistreated, or I | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| life. You do not have to beg, cry, submit and sell your soul in order to get | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| to make a bargain and say, If I submit to you, you must love me and do | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| before those to whom you feel you must submit to get your need fulfilled. As a result | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| order to have others comply with you; you submit in order to dominate, although such domination must | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| to destroy their very aim. The more they submit, the more the existing power drive of others | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| person. On the other hand, you tend to submit to such a person. And in the third | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| but less, my friends. When you appease or submit, when you give up or allow others to | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| I am describing. The stronger your tendency to submit, the more self-contempt you beget, and therefore the | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| meaningfulness of life, so does the solution to submit rob you of independence and strength; it creates | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| bound to reject another human being. When you submit, you do not experience the truth of the | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| need exists, the more the person may sacrifice, submit, and be a martyr. All this is an | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| Thus he begins to appease, to cajole, to submit to, and become subdued by, this imaginary God-image | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| when you lack courage and self-assertion, when you submit in evident weakness. This pseudo-strength is, in reality | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| so against the stream, as it were. You submit to it because you have to, and not | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| the negativity you have produced and chosen to submit to in the first place. When you reverse | 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL |
| are wrong and the other is right, you submit and enslave yourself. You become nothing, worthless, pitiful | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| essence. You will no longer feel obliged to submit to senseless rules of restriction. The moment you | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| aggressive. Such an individual feels compelled to always submit, to never say No to any demands, no | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| true to yourself dispenses with the tendency to submit to others, to conform and appease, which you | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| and rebellion, which is another vicious circle. You submit to another's equally insatiable, unreasonable demands and join | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| creates resistance, even though temporarily some people outwardly submit to the force out of their own fears | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| wants to exploit you, he or she will submit to your rule, but also will resent and | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| in a state of love you do not submit. Submission is the price you wish to pay | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| than to God's will. You may choose to submit to another, stronger or seemingly stronger person: a | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| only two choices. The first alternative is to submit to the totality of what is conveyed. In | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| state of consciousness has no influence whatever. To submit to this false reality seems indeed the most | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
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| on how the other person relates to the submitter. Seekers for power must never fail in anything | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| and feelings will it become clear that the submitter rejects as much as the aggressor. The struggle | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| harbors underneath it the possibility of the Christian submitter, and vice versa. Christian rebels fear that if | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| more often with the rebelling Christian image. The submitter exists only as an underlying threat and fear | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
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| or rather, I can get it only by submitting to certain things I really do not like | 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| do not wish to give up your autonomy submitting to the rule of another person. Hence only | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| one person changes the procedure, not by outwardly submitting to unjustified demands out of weakness and fear | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| self-preservation tries to compromise; you will risk by submitting. You will try to obtain happiness by self-effacement | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| drive. An additional aspect is the tendency of submitting to the very person you fear most. In | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| There is a tendency of cringing, appeasing, and submitting to the most feared person. This is your | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| you give in to the needs, and by submitting, appeasing, and complying you become most angry with | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| that they want to receive from you. By submitting, you do not love, but merely expect to | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| in reality and essence, just as weak as submitting. Those of you who belong in this category | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| not, you will be torn between fighting or submitting. Both create tension, anxiety, and inner and outer | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| you do solely to gain approval from others. Submitting and appeasing lead to nothing but sharp resentments | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| Rebellion no more leads to selfhood than does submitting to other people's standards, although it is often | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| and refute other people's exploitative demands rather than submitting to them because of your own hidden agenda | 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS |
| respond to your dependency and fear either by submitting, selling out, and hating yourself for it, or | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| impulses exist, but they are very threatening. Such submitting Christians feel themselves to be sinners whenever they | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| we are concerned with on this path. The submitting Christians I first spoke of would never enter | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| need to take Him into their own lives. Submitting Christians suffer from the same confusion, the same | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| parent is no protection against a frightening world. Submitting Christians accept their parents' doctrine unquestioningly also because | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| is indeed a manifestation of God. Like the submitting Christian, Jews who deny Christ feel immensely threatened | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| a personal/psychological issue which parallels that of the submitting Christian. The part of the soul which has | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
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| self such a powerful energy that all the subsequent steps upward on the path will become easier | 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE |
| we then ask you some questions in the subsequent meeting? ANSWER: I would even suggest that it | 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| If this is so, does the Fall and subsequent Plan of Salvation hold true for other... ANSWER | 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES |
| -- and establish the patterns of the person's subsequent emotional life. The child would like to be | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| is much stronger, infinitely more powerful, than all subsequent impressions and experiences. Hence, you make a compromise | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| shame about your yearning for love and your subsequent suppression of it, you cannot silence this clamoring | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| actually the reason for the unhealthy impact and subsequent rejection. Once you fully understand this, you will | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| manner in which you meet these determines the subsequent life and fullness of joy that can be | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| experience was genuine, to that extent must the subsequent road lead away from such euphoric states. Does | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| and unrolling the inner process, while observing the subsequent outer actions and reactions. When it comes to | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| of needs, the clinging to illusion, and the subsequent inability to relinquish the illusion and to see | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| that derive from the negative condition and its subsequent manifestations, but will lead to finally giving up | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| should first work on this very rebellion and subsequent frenzy. You make the rebellion and frenzy your | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| deliberate prohibition to loving, and another is a subsequent lack of self-confidence and self-respect. To atone for | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| of their worth or lack of it. The subsequent powerful forcing current, employed to dispel the dreaded | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| guilt accompanied by weakness and paralysis and the subsequent impairment of inherent productive faculties. It has not | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| talking it out, or talking it out with subsequent action -- it will relieve a hurting heart | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| outline the way, even though, of course, these subsequent steps cannot be taken until you have clearly | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| between new knowledge in certain eras and the subsequent upheavals due to ignorance of the real meaning | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| the debris of your past hurts and their subsequent destructive tendencies, you accumulate them behind the barricade | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| as a result of your inner misconceptions and subsequent faulty responses to other people and to life | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| and children. The unresolved confusions, conflicts and the subsequent basic split must be challenged most dramatically in | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| difficulties, bring examples of the split concepts and subsequent conflicts that you may have found in yourself | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| no longer deal with little reliefs, small insights, subsequent relapses, and the repetition of the process. This | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| while the hitherto hidden greed is unfair, the subsequent measure against it -- complete self-denial -- is | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| by awareness and observation, and the measure of subsequent appropriate activity and treatment. For the yes-current to | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| powers. The other is your fear with its subsequent dishonesties, causing you to withhold yourself in a | 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION |
| only for this hour, but for all the subsequent efforts, endeavors, and steps on your path. Provided | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| it becomes displaced. It will be reexperienced in subsequent situations. Displaced and denied sadness becomes self-pity, hopelessness | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| for you. But it is only one step; subsequent steps must follow. I have of course already | 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER |
| that step and overindulge in it, forgetting the subsequent steps, which are: seeing the unreality that is | 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER |
| becomes deeper, longer lasting, and less fraught with subsequent fearful contraction. You become more capable of fulfillment | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| in any of these ways, it determines its subsequent life circumstances. These circumstances are figured out in | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| created karmic conditions, prerequisites for specific guidance for subsequent reincarnations. For example, the antagonism that generally existed | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| the plans that might have waited for a subsequent embodiment. The process of birth is never, under | 255 THE BIRTHING PROCESS -- COSMIC PULSE |